HISTORY’S MOST PERSECUTED MINORITY IS INSENSITIVE TO THE ASPIRATIONS OF WORLD’S MOST DISPOSSESSED TRIBE
by Rafiq Kathwari
My sister-in-law and I sat in the back seat of the Volkswagen as my older brother drove
in desperate rain through red lights to Maimonides. “Kicking,” she said, putting my
hand over her round belly. Shy, I lowered my gaze to her flip-flops on the car floor. She
gave birth to a son in Brooklyn eight years to the day JFK was shot in Dallas. A new
alien in New York, I babysat my cute nephew in a stark rental on Park Avenue in
Yorkville, with a view of Gimbels, now a long extinct department store. His dad rode the
IRT to work on Pine Street; his mom was a salesperson in Herald Square at Korvettes
another extinct store. The boy and I both discovered Big Bird on a Zenith console, my
first TV exposure at age 22. Our Park Avenue closets were stocked with handmade
Numdah rugs Grandfather had shipped from our ancestral home, Kashmir, hoping we’d
become rich fast carpeting America from sea to shining sea. I watched him dunk hoops
in Perturbia, his long hair swishing to Metallica, “Soldier boy, made of clay.” He hunted
jackrabbits at the family farm upstate, where he signed up at the local NRA, his dad’s
rifle on the boy’s shoulder. He scaled a peak one summer in Kashmir, the knotty dispute
forever a passionate subject at the dining table, sweetened often by ice cream after the
dishes were washed, and reruns of All In The Family wrapped up Prime Time. He
praised Allah at the Islamic Center Sunday School on California Road to which I once
gave a brand name vacuum cleaner that failed to suck up the holier-than-thou Talibs.
Allah alone knows what seeds they sowed in his receptive mind for he made his little
sister weep, shaming her for wearing leotards to her ballet class. She loved ballet classes,
and she always looked up to her big brother. He persuaded his dad to stop serving liquor
to guests, and he made his parents proud calling out the Call to Prayer at an annual apple
picking at the farm, an odd religious intrusion that on a crisp Fall day made me feel sad,
because I like my cider with a splash of vodka.
Read more »