Gary Borjesson is a psychotherapist in private practice in Oregon, where he lives with his wife and their canine friend, Theila. Until 2013 he was a tenured member of the faculty at the inimitable St. John’s College in Annapolis, MD. He taught (but mostly learned) mathematics, sciences, philosophy, ancient Greek, music, literature, and political theory. He has a PhD in philosophy from Emory University, and a Masters in Mental Health Counseling. His first book, Willing Dogs & Reluctant Masters: on friendship and dogs, is a philosophical exploration of friendship, using dogs to cast fresh light on human friendships. In 2023 he started publishing How We Help on Substack. This short, free weekly post is intended to inform and inspire thinking about the art, science, and philosophy of helping relationships. This is also the theme of his current book project. Email: garyborjesson [at] proton.me
by Gary Borjesson Dwell as near as possible to the channel in which your life flows. —Henry David Thoreau What does being true to ourselves feel like? The question goes to the heart of authenticity. Rousseau viewed our innermost feelings—the feeling of our existence (“le sentiment de l’existence”)—as a guide to authenticity and contentment. Nowadays…
by Gary Borjesson Become what you are, having learned what that is. —Pindar [To protect their privacy, I have changed identifying details of those mentioned here.] What do we want for our lives? It’s a peculiarly human question; other animals don’t appear to be worrying about it. I’ve asked myself this question, sometimes with curiosity,…
by Gary Borjesson Become who you are, having learned what that is. -Pindar Become who you are. —Nietzsche I want to be authentic and so probably do you. It’s a virtue fostered by philosophic and therapeutic inquiries. In popular culture, “authenticity” is broadly used to mean being true to oneself—often with an emphasis on not…
by Gary Borjesson I came to psychotherapy from philosophy, first starting therapy in my forties while on sabbatical from St. John’s College. I was struck by its transformative power—so struck that I ultimately resigned my tenure and returned to graduate school to train as a therapist. But I’ve hardly left philosophy behind. Freud reminds me…
by Gary Borjesson I invite you to explore with me what hospitality is, and why it’s an essential and cosmic principle of all life, but especially human life. The heart of hospitality is to provide the occasion for getting to know anyone or anything. I assume here that “getting to know” is useful and good,…