The Masculine Mystique

Oliver Traldi at The Point:

The emotional experience of direct and renewed acquaintance with the realities of selective pressure, such as the sudden introduction of sexual jealousy into a seemingly safe relationship, has had for me an almost mystical character, as though what’s reawakened is the prehistory of my whole species, which unwinds from its reptilian recesses, ornamented with the bizarre, gemlike contingencies of thousands of howling animal triumphs and the wailing ghosts of unmutated failures, splitting my consciousness as though from underneath, a whole ocean bursting forth from the sudden shift of tectonic plates; but this alarming thing that emerges, this dark uncoiling dragon capable of incomprehensible violence, seems also dimly recognizable as simply, in some sense, my own self.

It does not strike me as a coincidence that it is quite often the wild and dominating natural action of just these tidal forces which women seem to desire as consumers of the theater that is sometimes called kink. This provokes a feeling of being perceived, qua man, as though across a vast and ugly distance: radically unfamiliar and, as a happy result, perhaps competent in the contemporary eroticism exemplified by “romantasy”—romance books in which female leads liaise with creatures like giants, minotaurs, vampires and werewolves.

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What the killing of Renee Nicole Good—and the scandal that preceded it—tell us about the state of the nation

Sam Kahn at Persuasion:

Let’s talk about a very 21st century scene. There’s an incident somewhere in the United States. The incident slots itself in neatly along the lines of preexisting ideological divisions. As the incident is unfolding, witnesses pull out their cell phone cameras to record it and those images are soon plastered across the web. Everybody sees essentially the same scene and everybody draws drastically different conclusions, depending on what their prior political convictions happen to be. And the result is a society split almost perfectly in two—disagreeing not only about underlying principles but even about which camera angles of an event, and which speed of playback, and which audio track, it prefers to focus on.

A textbook instance of this phenomenon occurred with the shooting death of Renee Nicole Good in Minneapolis this week at the hands of ICE agents.

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When Does a Divorce Begin?

Anahid Neressian in The Yale Review:

When my daughter gets out of the car at the airport she vomits, pasta and strawberries plummeting undigested toward her shoes. I place my hand on her forehead; she feels warm; I turn to my husband and say, “Maybe we shouldn’t go tonight.” It’s just before Christmas, and my two children and I have tickets for a 9:00 p.m. flight from Los Angeles to New York. For several weeks my husband has vacillated strangely on the matter of whether he’s coming with us, even though in twelve years together we’ve never spent the holidays apart. When I say, “Maybe we shouldn’t go tonight,” he turns pale and scrubs his hand across his mouth, a gesture I recognize as a personal tell that he’s hiding something. I will later describe this as the moment my marriage ends, but in fact it ends roughly five minutes later when, holding my daughter’s hand and pushing my son in his stroller, their backpacks dangling from the crook of my arm, I walk into the terminal alone.

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Abstinence From AI Is Not the Answer

From Undark Magazine:

During 2025’s New York Comic Con, Jim Lee — the president, publisher, and chief creative officer of DC Comics — spoke out against the use of artificial intelligence in the creation of the imprint’s comic books. “DC Comics will not support AI-generated storytelling or artwork. Not now. Not ever — as long as Anne DePies and I are in charge,” Lee said, punctuating his remarks with a concise observation: “AI doesn’t dream. It doesn’t feel. It doesn’t make art — it aggregates it.”

To many, Lee’s comments are worthy of praise — a leader of a revered institution taking a firm position against AI. Stands like his arise from AI’s negative impacts — especially those of generative AI — on actors, writers, and others in creative industries. Analogous concerns have arisen where healthjustice, and education are concerned.

Many thoughtful voices in politics and culture are calling for controls on AI to protect the rights of those it impacts, be they artistspatientsrenters, or defendants. Much of this has been captured in a modern movement labeled “AI Luddite.” Like the original Luddites of the 1800s, these AI Luddites are not so much anti-tech as pro-human. They demand that technology reinforce human creativity and the dignity of work, rather than replacing skilled workers with an unskilled precariat, or replacing them altogether with machines. They want technology to be a choice made by those who use it and those it affects, rather than being forced on them.

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The Erotic Poems Of Bilitis

Cat Lambert at Aeon Magazine:

In 1894, a German archaeologist named Herr G Heim made a groundbreaking discovery. On the island of Cyprus, he excavated a tomb that belonged to a hitherto unknown ancient female poet by the name of Bilitis. Carved on the walls surrounding her sarcophagus were more than 150 ancient Greek poems in which Bilitis recounted her life, from her childhood in Pamphylia in present-day Turkey to her adventures on the islands of Lesbos and Cyprus, where she would eventually come to rest. Heim diligently copied down this treasure trove of poems, which had not seen the light of day for more than two millennia. They would have remained little known – accessible only to a small, scholarly audience who could decipher ancient Greek – had a Frenchman named Pierre Louÿs not taken it upon himself to hunt down Heim’s Greek edition, hot off the press, and translated Bilitis’s poetry into French for a broader reading public that same year (published as Les Chansons de Bilitis or The Songs of Bilitis). Bilitis might have been an obscure historical figure – no other ancient author mentions encountering her or her poetry – but the cultural and literary significance of Heim’s discovery was not lost on Louÿs. For, in several of her poems, Bilitis revealed that she crossed paths with classical antiquity’s most renowned and controversial female poet: Sappho.

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Friday Poem

Crucifixions

I am not an Idealist, nor a cynic,
but merely unafraid of contradictions.
I have seen men face each other when
both were right, yet each was determined
to kill each other, which was wrong.
What each man saw was an image of the
other, made by someone else. That is
what we are prisoners of.

—A personal Testament by Donald Hogan
Harpers Magazine, January 1972

from Her Blue Body Everything We Know
Harcourt Books 1991

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Thursday, January 8, 2026

The West: The History of an Idea

Oksana Forostyna at the European Review of Books:

Varouxakis’s book is primarily about Westerners’ own conception of the West — an approach that allows him to prove that even within the so-called West, the notion was not a coherent container. It is as much a history of terms and discourses as it is about ideas, and it starts the historical clock on those terms pointedly late. Most historians trace the concept of the West back to Herodotus in the fifth century BC, when the “western” Greeks fought the “eastern” Persians. In fact, Varouxakis writes, “‘The West’ as a potential political entity based on civilisational commonality is a modern idea that arose in the first half of the nineteenth century.”

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A comprehensive review confirms the benefits of exercise for treating depression

Carissa Wong at New Scientist:

Many of us experience a mood-boost after exercise, and now an updated review has revealed just how powerful it can be. Even light exercise, like walking or gardening, may ease the symptoms of depression as effectively as talking therapies or antidepressants.

“It really reiterates that exercise provides an option for people who have depressive symptoms, and confirms that exercise may be as effective as psychotherapy and antidepressants,” says Andrew Clegg at the University of Lancashire in the UK.

Prior studies, including a key review published by the Cochrane Library in 2013, have found that exercise may ease symptoms of depression as effectively as standard therapies, including antidepressants and cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), where a therapist helps people change their thoughts, feelings and behaviour.

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Sinti and Roma in German Erinnerungskultur

Sanders Isaac Bernstein at Cabinet Magazine:

In the glade that is the Memorial to the Sinti and Roma of Europe Murdered under National Socialism, history seeks to enter memory. At the center of a grove of trees is a dark pool, reflecting the open sky as well as the looming face of the Reichstag. Surrounded by shattered stones inscribed with the names of sixty-nine sites where National Socialist Germany incarcerated and killed Sinti and Roma, the pool itself in turn surrounds a triangular island, the memorial’s center, on which rests a flower or two, unwilting.

Situated in the middle of Berlin, steps away from the Brandenburg Gate and across the street from the Reichstag, the memorial, sheltered by tall trees, feels a place apart. Its sounds and rhythms are distinct from the babbling frenzy of the city, seemingly distant. From the trees comes birdsong, and from invisible speakers a plaintive violin composition—“Mare Manuschenge” (Our people), composed for this site by Sinto violinist and politician Romeo Franz. Visitors who enter the memorial drift around its landscape.

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Thoughts on Traditional Marriage in the Age of Feminism

Wen Gao at The Common Reader:

My husband and I, newlyweds of just one year, live an ordinary life. We drag each other to Costco on Saturdays, jointly complain about how much we hate a specific restaurant on the Delmar Loop, and endlessly debate the China and America relationship. Yes, he walks through the world with the undeniable privileges of a White American man. And yes, his “expert” insights into China often leave me caught between a laugh and a heavy sigh.

This is my seventh year living abroad on my own. Independence has been my practical necessity. Then came this marriage, and ever since I have been absorbed into a narrative I never signed up for. When I posted our courthouse wedding photos on social media, one online friend, perhaps with good intentions, left a comment: “If this is for the sake of making a living, I wish you luck.” Other responses were less generous. I was told I was being devalued by a pathetic courthouse wedding; I was brainwashed; I sold myself for a green card, and so on…. It is fascinating how people can extract an entire narrative of victimhood or greediness from a few photos.

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Man Ray’s Mock-Up For Électricité, 1931

A PUZZLING CONTRAPTION greeted visitors to New York’s Daniel Gallery in 1916: a wooden panel, bearing two bells at its top and a ringer at its base. Framed by painted f-holes, it suggested a musical instrument or a sounding apparatus; a raised handprint at center seemed to indicate its recent use. In fact, the work, appearing with the title Self-Portrait, refused to operate. The disjunction between the abstract composition and the notion of self-portraiture appeared perplexing in its own right; its inoperability only exacerbated the viewer’s frustration and redoubled the artist’s impish provocation.

A tiny photograph, currently on view in the Metropolitan Museum’s prodigious Man Ray survey, is all that remains of this since lost work. If its absence speaks obliquely to the Dadaist disregard for aesthetic permanence, its iconography—and its iconoclastic mordancy—echoes throughout his entire corpus. Again and again, we find enigmatic encounters between the mechanical and the erotic; a self-possessed symmetry intermittently upended by formal and conceptual incongruities; disembodied signs and silhouettes in place of integral figurations.

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Blank Canvas – a superb debut from a 22-year-old author

Rebecca Wait in The Guardian:

Lies offend our sense of justice: generally, we want to see the liar unmasked and punished. But when the deception brings no material gain, we might also be curious about what purpose the lie serves – what particular need of their own the liar is attempting to meet. This is precisely what Grace Murray’s witty, assured debut explores: not just the consequences of a lie but the ways in which it can, paradoxically, reveal certain truths.

At a small liberal arts college in upstate New York, Charlotte begins her final year by claiming that her father has just died of a heart attack. In fact, he is alive and well back in Lichfield, England. This lie is the jumping-off point for an unpacking of Charlotte’s psychology, as well as the catalyst for her relationship with fellow student Katarina, a quasi-love story that forms the book’s main narrative.

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Donated Mitochondria Help Alleviate Nerve Damage and Pain in Mice

Andrea Lius in The Scientist:

Fast-acting cells, such as sensory neurons, require a lot of energy to function, so they have a high demand for mitochondria. But how do these cells generate and maintain enough of these powerhouse organelles to sustain themselves?

Ru-Rong Ji, a pain researcher at Duke University, and his colleagues recently discovered that glial cells that surround sensory neurons play a critical role in this process: They transfer mitochondria to their neighbors.1 When the researchers blocked this process in mice, the animals experienced more nerve damage and pain. These findings, published in Nature, highlight mitochondrial transfer as a possible solution for treating chronic pain in humans.

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Thursday Poem

Reassurance

I must love the questions
themselves
as Rilke said
like locked rooms
full of treasure
to which my blind
and groping key
does not yet fit

and await the answers
as unsealed
letters
mailed with dubious intent
and written in a very foreign
tongue

and in the hourly making
of myself
the thought of Time
to force, to squeeze
the space
I grow into.

by Alice Walker
from Her Blue Body Everything We Know
Harcourt Books, 1991

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Wednesday, January 7, 2026

What if Chekhov Had Lived in Pakistan?

Dwight Garner in the New York Times:

“The relation between the chauffeur and the chauffeured can be curiously intense,” Iris Murdoch wrote in “The Sea, the Sea.” This was true in David Szalay’s Booker Prize-winning novel “Flesh” (2025) and it is also true in Daniyal Mueenuddin’s sensitive and powerful first novel, “This Is Where the Serpent Lives,” set largely in rural Pakistan.

If Mueenuddin’s name sounds familiar, it’s because his first book, a collection of stories titled “In Other Rooms, Other Wonders” (2009) was a finalist for the National Book Award and the Pulitzer Prize. Its title echoed Truman Capote’s “Other Voices, Other Rooms” and its prose echoed Anton Chekhov’s in its spareness and sometimes oppressive sense that no hair was out of place. “I am constantly reading Chekhov,” Mueenuddin said in an interview. “I am never not reading Chekhov.”

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Nonhuman animals are also susceptible to magic tricks

Elias Garcia-Pelegrin, Alexandra K Schnell, Clive Wilkins, and Nicola S Clayton at the NIH:

In recent years, scientists have begun to use magic effects to investigate the blind spots in our attention and perception [G. Kuhn, Experiencing the Impossible: The Science of Magic (2019); S. Macknik, S. Martinez-Conde, S. Blakeslee, Sleights of Mind: What the Neuroscience of Magic Reveals about Our Everyday Deceptions (2010)]. Recently, we suggested that similar techniques could be transferred to nonhuman animal observers and that such an endeavor would provide insight into the inherent commonalities and discrepancies in attention and perception in human and nonhuman animals [E. Garcia-Pelegrin, A. K. Schnell, C. Wilkins, N. S. Clayton, Science 369, 1424–1426 (2020)]. Here, we performed three different magic effects (palming, French drop, and fast pass) to a sample of six Eurasian jays (Garrulus glandarius). These magic effects were specifically chosen as they utilize different cues and expectations that mislead the spectator into thinking one object has or has not been transferred from one hand to the other.

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They tried to smear him as an antisemite – but Mayor Zohran Mamdani walks in a rich Jewish tradition

Molly Crabapple in The Guardian:

Zohran Mamdani (left) and Baruch Charney Vladeck. ‘Mamdani walks in an older Jewish tradition. Not that of ritzy Upper East Side synagogues, but of so many of our great-grandparents.’

Billionaires raised fortunes against him. The president threatened to strip his citizenship. Mainstream synagogues slandered him as the spawn of Osama bin Laden and Chairman Mao. But today, Zohran Mamdani became the first socialist mayor of New York City.

For all the hysteria, when I look at Mamdani, I didn’t see some radical departure from the past. I see him as the heir to an old and venerable Jewish tradition – that of Yiddish socialism – which helped build New York.

In some cases, the link is direct. Bruce Vladeck, a member of one of Mamdani’s transition committees, is a well-respected expert on Medicare, but for the sake of this article, his credentials matter less than his surname.

Vladeck is the grandson of Baruch Charney Vladeck, a Marxist troublemaker from the Pale of Settlement, a tract of land in the Russian empire where Jews were permitted to live at a time of rampant antisemitic oppression.

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